Once a relationship has been going on for a while doesn’t mean the loving touch that was there before has to end however, it will if the both of you allow it. There are many ways to keep your relationship fresh and full of love if you really want it to work. Try these tips and watch that intimate loving touch return:
Ø Stop looking for things to complain about instead, find things to laugh over.
Ø Don’t pick your battles; don’t pick anything except healthy negotiations to resolve personal issues.
Ø When dining out, sit next to one another so it’s easier to hold hands and share intimate conversation.
Ø Put a heartfelt card under his or her pillow, in their drawer or on the car seat. Regardless where you place it they will know that you are thinking of them at the most random times.
Ø Be random with a surprise, meaning just because on any day, at any time.
Ø Leave a thoughtful message on a stressful day to help improve their mood. If you know their day is stressful don’t add to it.
Ø Share words of inspiration as a reminder of the blessings you have.
Ø Agree to disagree and understand that there are always at least two perspectives and yours belongs to you so be willing to compromise.
Ø Don’t forget the loving things that brought you together.
Ø Leave the negative past in the past if you’re still together.
Ø Take time away from everyone else to focus on one another.
Relationships are a work in progress that will have a healthy progression if you choose to pair love with understanding.